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Kicking the Fear Habit
by Cheryl Layton (For educational purpose only)
Fear is essential to survival. Yet, it is
one of the least accepted human emotions and one of the hardest to master. There are many unpleasant physical reactions to
fear that we do not understand and seem to have no control of. Who has not at
one time or another, experienced rubbery legs, cotton mouth, or Olympic caliber sweat glands?
Believe it or not, there ways to modify or prevent the changes that conspire with this emotion and there are advantages
to been afraid, as well.
First of all let examine, what is occurring
in the body when enveloped in fear. The emotional brain causes great changes
in the blood flow throughout our physical structure. A large amount of blood
is diverted away from the interior digestive organs, where it would not be needed during running, fighting, or simply trembling
during a conflict. Blood is also detoured from the head, neck, face, and brain
areas. It is sent to skeletal muscles in the arms, legs, back, chest and belly,
which need most of your energy in a crisis. Unfortunately, all of this extravagant
gear shifting result in physiological reactions such as rapid pulse rate, sweating palms, raised blood pressure, rapid breathing
and increase muscle tension.

Dealing with these anxiety responses in basically
a matter of training. First: RELAX, take a deep breath, and unclench your fists, and lower your shoulders. Your blood pressure and breathing will stabilize and your body will be more responsive and move faster
and smoother when relaxed.
Another method is to force yourself to concentrate
more on your adversaries than your fear of them. At some point you must suspend
the fears, prejudice, and mental abstractions that prevent effective response to an opponents threat. By penetrating the moment through intense concentration, you can attain internal harmony.
A third technique is systematic desensitization,
this is a time consuming process of desensitizing a person by slowly increasing exposure to their fears through though transactions
or actual encounters. An example: an instructor lets a new student light sparring
with lower ranked students, and so forth, making the experience less stressful.
Have you ever noticed how alert and receptive
you feel when in a dilemma? Well, this is one way in which fear can actually be advantageous.
Humans are build to become afraid when a situation demands it. This capacity
to react automatically to a threat has evolved over eons of trial and error and is one of the qualities that allowed our species
to survive.

One way this part of our brain protects us
is by causing us to sometimes freeze momentarily. When our ancestors were startled
by something huge and hairy it was often best just to remain motionless, so as not to come to the beasts attention. Another protective reaction was to run at first sight of a set of large, sharp
teeth and anything connected to it. Our ancestors did not analyze the problem,
they just ran like crazy.
Best of all our body produces adrenalin, a
biochemical arouser that prepares our skeletal muscles to consume large amounts of energy, allowing us to possess seemingly
super human drive and power.
Fear energizes our body and simplifies our
thoughts and action does to the bare essentials for physical survival. If we
can not avoid danger, our inherited neurophysiology insures that we will run well and fast.
If we can aggressively defend ourselves, it assures that we will fight hard and without reservation. It is as simple as that.
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